It's all in the Eyes!
Frankie,
How can you tell if someone is interested in you? My friends say I keep missing the flirting signals that women send me. Am I clueless?
Jovan
Well Jovan perhaps you are clueless, but I don’t have enough information to confirm that! :)
Most men find it difficult to interpret the more subtle cues in women's body-language and are typically slow to catch on to flirtation unless it is fairly blatant. I think this has a lot to do with fear of rejection: if you misread the signals (men tend to mistake friendliness for sexual interest) and make a move, you could get a nasty rebuff – which no one relishes. But I always say: go for it. What’s the worst thing that could happen?
Some of us have become so worried about causing offence or sending the wrong signals that we are in danger of losing our natural talent for playful, harmless flirtation. Whether you are flirting for ‘fun’ or flirting with ‘intent’, it is an invigorating experience. Flirting can fire up your self esteem and libido, making you feel fully alive.
Go forth and flirt, Jovan!
How can you tell if someone is interested in you? My friends say I keep missing the flirting signals that women send me. Am I clueless?
Jovan
Well Jovan perhaps you are clueless, but I don’t have enough information to confirm that! :)
Most men find it difficult to interpret the more subtle cues in women's body-language and are typically slow to catch on to flirtation unless it is fairly blatant. I think this has a lot to do with fear of rejection: if you misread the signals (men tend to mistake friendliness for sexual interest) and make a move, you could get a nasty rebuff – which no one relishes. But I always say: go for it. What’s the worst thing that could happen?
Some of us have become so worried about causing offence or sending the wrong signals that we are in danger of losing our natural talent for playful, harmless flirtation. Whether you are flirting for ‘fun’ or flirting with ‘intent’, it is an invigorating experience. Flirting can fire up your self esteem and libido, making you feel fully alive.
Go forth and flirt, Jovan!
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