Sex or no Sex?
Frankie:
I understand the concept of being non-exclusive, but what about having sex? Is it appropriate for me to have sex even when I am non-exclusive or should I wait until I am in an exclusive relationship?
Lianna
Dear Lianna:
For many people, having sex doesn’t require commitment or exclusivity. What goes on in your sexual life is your business – only do what you feel comfortable doing. Just be safe and take all the necessary precautions. Too often we act based on others’ expectations and judgments, even when it conflicts with what we feel is right for us. Only you know whether you will feel at ease having sex in a non-exclusive relationship. It is your decision entirely – and it is private.
Sex is a good thing but often people confuse great sex with relationship compatibility. That is a dangerous dating trap which can often lead to premature commitment between people who are not well suited. Awareness is the best strategy for manoeuvring the many dating minefields.
I understand the concept of being non-exclusive, but what about having sex? Is it appropriate for me to have sex even when I am non-exclusive or should I wait until I am in an exclusive relationship?
Lianna
Dear Lianna:
For many people, having sex doesn’t require commitment or exclusivity. What goes on in your sexual life is your business – only do what you feel comfortable doing. Just be safe and take all the necessary precautions. Too often we act based on others’ expectations and judgments, even when it conflicts with what we feel is right for us. Only you know whether you will feel at ease having sex in a non-exclusive relationship. It is your decision entirely – and it is private.
Sex is a good thing but often people confuse great sex with relationship compatibility. That is a dangerous dating trap which can often lead to premature commitment between people who are not well suited. Awareness is the best strategy for manoeuvring the many dating minefields.
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I'ts important to be sure what is the real reason for a dating: Create a long term relationship or just some fun and sex with a open end...
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