Not All Advice is Good Advice
Frankie,
Why is it that whenever I look for dating advice or information about meeting women it always revolves around "closing the deal". In other words the books and advice out there seem to be all about a game to help men bed women. I already know how to have sex, I want to know how to find a woman I can fall in love with.
James, 29 in Austin, TX
James:
I agree with you completely! I have been coaching singles for many years and in my experience most single men are not interested in just having meaningless sex and bed hopping, they genuinely want to find their love partner.
There is a lot of bad advice out there in articles and books written by men for men...and frankly there is a general lack of respect for the intelligence of the men who seek this information (not to mention their female 'prey'). The authors incorrectly assume that most men today are only interested in superficial sex, when in truth many are looking for meaningful and committed relationships.
My biggest complaint about this type of lame advice is their recommendation to play a game with another's emotions and to pretend to be something you are not.
If you are serious about finding the love of your life, you need to be authentic...there is no substitute for the real man. Why pretend to be something you are not, or play a game? There are other ways to achieve the goal of meeting women.
I teach men how to be real…how to be confident…how to tap into what women want…but it isn’t a game. It’s about being the man you truly are. That is the sexiest thing any man can be.
Maybe I'll come down to Austin and run one of my workshops...
Frankie
Why is it that whenever I look for dating advice or information about meeting women it always revolves around "closing the deal". In other words the books and advice out there seem to be all about a game to help men bed women. I already know how to have sex, I want to know how to find a woman I can fall in love with.
James, 29 in Austin, TX
James:
I agree with you completely! I have been coaching singles for many years and in my experience most single men are not interested in just having meaningless sex and bed hopping, they genuinely want to find their love partner.
There is a lot of bad advice out there in articles and books written by men for men...and frankly there is a general lack of respect for the intelligence of the men who seek this information (not to mention their female 'prey'). The authors incorrectly assume that most men today are only interested in superficial sex, when in truth many are looking for meaningful and committed relationships.
My biggest complaint about this type of lame advice is their recommendation to play a game with another's emotions and to pretend to be something you are not.
If you are serious about finding the love of your life, you need to be authentic...there is no substitute for the real man. Why pretend to be something you are not, or play a game? There are other ways to achieve the goal of meeting women.
I teach men how to be real…how to be confident…how to tap into what women want…but it isn’t a game. It’s about being the man you truly are. That is the sexiest thing any man can be.
Maybe I'll come down to Austin and run one of my workshops...
Frankie
1 Comments:
I am tired of having all the women I meet think I am one of those guys who is only looking for sex. It has gotten worse lately because of these so called dating gurus who advise men how to game women. Why? because women read this garbage too fellows. They are onto you. Too bad the sincere guys are also getting a bad rap.
Ken
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