Condoms are Mandatory!
Frankie:
I have had pre-cancer cells and am therefore not willing to go on the pill anymore. But guys don't seem to enjoy condoms, understandable, and i don't want to use any contraceptives as they all impede on my health in some way; I'm simply not willing to put my health at risk for the sake of having a sexual relationship. So I guess this means no relationship? What are your views?
Mary in Australia
Mary:
Contraception is only one reason to use a condom. Even if you were able to use other forms of contraception, you still need a condom as a preventative measure against contracting STDs or HIV. (Even then, there is no 100% guarantee, since condoms can leak or break.)
Of course men prefer not to use condoms! Any man who tries to convince you to forego the requirement for a condom is a selfish oaf. All he cares about is his momentary pleasure and nothing else, including you. Pay attention to that signal.
Don't deny yourself sexual pleasure because a man "doesn't like" to wear a condom. If he wants to have sex with you, he will need to wear one. Condoms are mandatory! No exceptions. You'll be surprised at how quickly he will agree!
I have had pre-cancer cells and am therefore not willing to go on the pill anymore. But guys don't seem to enjoy condoms, understandable, and i don't want to use any contraceptives as they all impede on my health in some way; I'm simply not willing to put my health at risk for the sake of having a sexual relationship. So I guess this means no relationship? What are your views?
Mary in Australia
Mary:
Contraception is only one reason to use a condom. Even if you were able to use other forms of contraception, you still need a condom as a preventative measure against contracting STDs or HIV. (Even then, there is no 100% guarantee, since condoms can leak or break.)
Of course men prefer not to use condoms! Any man who tries to convince you to forego the requirement for a condom is a selfish oaf. All he cares about is his momentary pleasure and nothing else, including you. Pay attention to that signal.
Don't deny yourself sexual pleasure because a man "doesn't like" to wear a condom. If he wants to have sex with you, he will need to wear one. Condoms are mandatory! No exceptions. You'll be surprised at how quickly he will agree!
The only time anyone should consider not using a condom is if:
- they are in an exclusive, long term sexual relationship;
- they have both been tested for STDs and HIV; and
- they are prepared as a couple for the consequence of pregnancy.
Frankie
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